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Hey guys, i promised to explain how we already use our minds in relation to the brain, and how we can self develop, using them as tools. In the preceding article, we talked about the mind, mind control and brain training, all in introduction. If you missed it, read here. 

It is supposed to be a good thing that your mind controls your actions, your life’s  decision.When an untrained mind is weighed down with the task of making constructive decisions, the brain would always act on wrong information. the fool that it is, it wouldn’t even fight it. You ll always make wrong decisions.

For example, you want to decide on a new shoe to buy at the shoe store. An untrained mind would be very indecisive. The reason is that the untrained mind is not focused. it will wander around many options making it difficult to make decisions.


This statement means that your brain is mostly fine. it is your mind that always needs fixing. All that your brain does is carry out the task. In the case of buying the shoes, it ll let you know if you have enough money to buy,it will tell you your size, then it will send signals to the motor parts of your body. You will then pick and go home.

This is how you already use your mind with your brain. the problem is that you do this with a sense of helplessness.

You need to get rational. Rational is used here to mean- take control.

Lets see 2 ways to focus the mind.

1. The mind calls your memories to action. All the brain does is keep the data. Hence the expressions, call to mind, come to mind, keep in mind, to have mind of, not call to brain, keep in brain. Since the brain keeps the information, you need to make sure the information needed is available as at when due, so when the mind tells the brain to remember what signal it should send, it will remember. Always keep this physical mind of yours in check. 

To keep your memory straight, always task your brain. always learn new things and keep doing them. Try to keep as many numbers as possible in your memory. if you do that always your brain would see keeping decisions and development related tasks, as easy.

2. Always try to be conscious especially when you are awake. Drinking alcohol soils the brain. You can read this article to know more. This will help your mind to get the attention it needs to self develop.




Falling in love is easy , living in love is hard.
Falling in love is chemistry. Getting married is arithmetic. To love, nothing is put into consideration. You just look into each others eyes and it just feels good. You just want the person, without thinking about any aftermath.

Louis de berniéres:

“Love is a temporary madness, it erupts like volcanoes and then subsides. And when it subsides, you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion, it is not the desire to mate every second minute of the day, it is not lying awake at night imagining that he is kissing every cranny of your body. No, don’t blush, I am telling you some truths. That is just being “in love”, which any fool can do. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident.”

After reading this, there is not much for me to say about love.
Lets talk about getting married.
Love is just action, marriage is decision.
Before you go into marriage with someone, you get to consider lots and lots of issues. You weigh multiple prospective spouses, you make research, you look at potentials.
At this point, don’t tell me you re in love. If you re, you ll just go do whatever with your eyes closed. You won’t even hope for the best because, love is unconditional. I shake my head.
Even if I agree that love is unconditional, getting married isn’t!
Getting married is filled with all sorts of conditions.
In the movies, you get married because you are in love. In real life, you get married to fall in love.

Don’t be deceived, of you ‘decide’ to get married, make sure the terms are favourable.
Do it on your own terms. Don’t ever be blinded by love.
It is those terms that keep you there ( marriage). When the sparks and shines in your eyes’ fade, the conditions, that made you decide to love,  will make you keep loving.

It is said, love is blind and marriage is the cure. Don’t let it be that it is when you get into marriage that you realize you need some math.
Use marriage to open that vast avenue to love without condition.

So, I don’t know about unconditional love …but I understand unconditional marriage!

Till next time…open your heart wider than your eyes!